STOP THAT SUSPICION!
Stop policing your husband /wife!
Stop suspecting your husband /wife!
Stop monitoring his/her movements!
Stop snooping around, checking your husband’s/wife’s phone calls and text messages looking for tell-tale signs! That’s not marriage! That’s not how marriage works. You’re hurting your marriage and hurting yourself big time; and empowering the devil to harass your mind and steal your peace! He’s just setting you up for a big fall, and you think you’re being smart. Stop it! Trust is the name of the game!
JUST FACE YOUR OWN ROLE…
Suspecting and keeping a tab on each other is not part of God’s recommended roles for us as husbands or wives.
In marriage, the husband and wife have been called to help each other, protect each other, defend each other, watch each other’s back, uphold each other,make up for each other’s weaknesses in loving partnership, trust and submission to each other. Not in fault-finding and judging each other’s performance.
Neither the husband or wife should have any form of superiority complex… Because both are heirs together in Christ.
Ecclesiastes 4:10 says to help each other come through any weakness, mistake or failure; not look out for a reason to quit the marriage or bring each other down! Lord have mercy!
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