MARRIAGE MATTERS…

YOU ARE NOT IN MARRIAGE TO PLEASE YOUR HUSBAND!

Many women make fruitless efforts to please their husband.

They go: “Nothing I do pleases him! “.

Why not? Because that’s a wrong approach to wifehood! God didn’t send you into his life to please him (your husband ); he sent you to help him – even if it will require displeasing him sometimes!

God said the man needed help to make it in life; and it’s you he sent to him.

Wow! So you’re God’s HELP AGENT in his life – you are on assignment. You therefore labour to please the one who sent you, and then he does the job through you – perfectly! Though it may not seem so to the man or anyone else.
And you know what? He (God) pays well (Read Isaiah 65:21-22)!

Be more afraid of God than your husband! Any woman who sees her husband doing wrong and remains taciturn, or approves of it, for fear of abuse or losing her marriage is a wicked woman! Is that how to help a man?

There are things some men do and you wonder, “Was his wife not there?”

That’s what happens when a woman is more afraid of her husband than the God who “employed” her to help him be the man he is created to be.

This is why every wife needs to be in a very strong and virile relationship with God – for a constant supply of grace and wisdom that will command the man’s respect and trust, and not his intimidation or reaction.

Of the capable wife Proverbs 31:11 says:

her husband’s heart trusts safely in her, she will do him no harm all her life…” (Living Bible).

That’s because she’s doing her job as a wife, not to please her husband but to please God; so her words and actions are inspired by God.

This is a message for both husbands and wives. A lot of us need to change our approach to marriage. Our marriages must work; because God is interested!

May the Lord give you understanding in Jesus name!

YOU ARE A HELP AGENT…

YOU ARE NOT IN MARRIAGE TO PLEASE YOUR HUSBAND!

Many women make fruitless efforts to please their husband. They go: “Nothing I do pleases him! “.
Why not? Because that’s a wrong approach to wifehood!

God didn’t send you into his life to please him (your husband ); he sent you to help him – even if it will require displeasing him sometimes!

God said the man needed help to make it in life; and it’s you he sent to him.

Wow! So you’re God’s HELP AGENT in his life – you are on assignment.

You therefore labour to please the one who sent you, and then he does the job through you – perfectly! Though it may not seem so to the man or anyone else.
And you know what? He (God) pays well (Read Isaiah 65:21-22)!

Be more afraid of God than your husband!Any woman who sees her husband doing wrong and remains taciturn, or approves of it, for fear of abuse or losing her marriage is a wicked woman! Is that how to help a man?

There are things some men do and you wonder, “Was his wife not there?” That’s what happens when a woman is more afraid of her husband than the God who “employed” her to help him be the man he is created to be.

This is why every wife needs to be in a very strong and virile relationship with God – for a constant supply of grace and wisdom that will command the man’s respect and trust, and not his intimidation or reaction.

Of the capable wife Proverbs 31:11 says: “her husband’s heart trusts safely in her, she will do him no harm all her life… (Living Bible).

That’s because she’s doing her job as a wife, not to please her husband but to please God; so her words and actions are inspired by God.

This is a message for both husbands and wives. A lot of us need to change our approach to marriage. Our marriages must work; because God is interested!

May the Lord give you understanding in Jesus name!

Dr Ada Ezeka

HEALING FOR YOUR BODY?

DAILY TIPS FOR DIVINE HEALTH -with AdaEzeka

If you want to receive life and health from God,take time to find the words of scripture that promise these results.

God always fulfils his promises when he can get the right cooperation. –

Meditate on these scriptures…

Job 22:21-22;

Galatians 4:30;

John 2:5;

Proverbs 4:20-22.

Peace!

BEFORE YOU MAKE THAT PROMISE…

No matter how powerful you may think you are,be careful the promise you make. Yeah!

Because someone may just take you up on it, and ask for somebody’s head!

Remember king Herod having to give a dancer the head of John The Baptist, just to honour the promise he made to her?

Such calamities come in different shades in our time,I tell you! So, just be careful…

Promises are easy to make…May you not find yourself in a dilemma when it’s time to fulfil that promise you made without thinking, or out of pride, or to impress…

IF YOUR HEART IS UGLY…

If your heart is ugly your life will be ugly!

If your heart is weak you will live a weak life!

If your heart is polluted your life will be polluted!

The state of your health,finances,relationships,experiences in life,etc are an undeniable reflection of the state of your heart. I tell you!

It’s time to check your heart. God is pleading with someone today:

“My son give me your heart…” -Proverbs 23:26.

– Dr Ada Ezeka

TOO BIG FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?

I share a wisdom with you, friends: In this life, relationships are more important than money! Because God can use, just one relationship to give you what money cannot give you;or do for you what even your money cannot do for you! If you’re
a Christian, never put money before your relationships! Never become too big, too rich, too famous,too successful, too up-there, or too VIP for your relationships! Never slaughter your relationships at the altar of any ambition or quest! God values relationships. Please share this wisdom.

– Dr. Ada Ezeka