FOR HUSBANDS WHO CARE
Text: Proverbs 31:10
“A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.” – MSG
“A capable, intelligent and virtous woman… who can find her. She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies and pearls.” – AMP
“Who can find a virtous wife? For her worth is far above rabies. ” -NKJV
What many married men don’t know is that…
No matter how wealthy and rich with children, money, cars and houses you become in this life, your wife still remains your greatest wealth and asset in this world. Yes!
By God’s design and rating, your wife will remain the number one asset and the most important addition that God will ever bring into your life.
God rates your wife’s worth and position in your life by the purpose for which he created her, and what he endowed her with to accomplish that purpose in your life and purpose here on earth.
So it doesn’t matter what else you have acquired and value in your life now, it can never take the place of your wife’s worth and invaluable place in your life.
Read these scriptures, please. They will throw more light on the authenticity of this wisdom I am sharing with you…
– Genesis 2:15,18, & 24
– 1Corinthians 11:7 & 9
– Proverbs 31:10-12
– Proverbs 18:22
God’s rating for the value of a man’s wife (and for the wellbeign of his children and family), is so powerful that it’s the primary criteria for how God rates and relates with the man. Malachi 2:13-16 and 1Peter 3:7 throw more light on this truth.
So you see, whatever else you have chosen to use as criteria to rate your wife’s usefulness and worth in your life and affairs (and to justify how you’re treating her) does not hold any water with God.
As far as God is concerned, your wife is…
* a good thing
* just the right, suitable and adequate help and partner you will ever need for ultimate and maximum success in this life.
* worth leaving your father and mother for.
* priceless…that is, no amount of money or treasure in any currency can equal her worth in your life. She is “far worth more than rubies”…or any price you want to place on her – Proverbs 31:10.
* worth more than any number of babies she will ever make for you.
That’s why it’s utter foolishness to consider your wife useless to you because she hasn’t given you any child…
Or because she has not been able to give you any male child… forgetting that it’s the God that forms babies in the womb that chooses to give either a male or female body to the seed you sowed in her womb not her – 1Corinthians 15-34-35 ; Jeremiah 1:5.
Let me conclude by letting you know, dear husband, that whatever your wife has turned out to become to you is absolutely your doing…
Just like you have the hot and cold water knob, whichever one you choose to turn on, is what determines whether it’s cold or hot water that comes out for you.
God gave you your wife like oil, diamond or gold in the belly of the earth…What you do with her determines how profitable she will be to you.
That’s why I always say that the true wife abuse is when a man is not sensitive enough to his wife’s worth enough to tap into it and make the most of her potentials to better his life.
That’s why many women go seeking fulfilment and affirmation in other things like money, career, fame, recognition, love, etc.
A woman who is fully engaged (and consequently, finds, love, joy and riches) in her husband’s life, will be too fulfilled to be interested in anything else that is not related to that primary assignment.
Why? Because she was created for the man. That is why, a woman who is not a happy wife can honestly not be a happy anything else.
A woman whose husband has made room in his life for her to fit in perfectly, is the happiest and most fulfilled woman, wife, mother and homemaker there can ever be.
That’s a woman who will live healthy, strong, long and victorious always – no matter what comes against her. Yes!
Husband, it’s time to begin to reevaluate your value and aporeciation for your wife based on God’s infallible standards. Receive God’s marvellius helps now, in Jesus precious name!
Peace to you abd your household, by all means!.
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