As I’m sitting here meditating on the awesome and so effortless success of the three days of the just concluded Woman You’re Too Much Conference 2018, which featured:

* Pastor’s Wives’ Summit
* Men’s Workshop
* Will You Marry Me? Talk Show for Singles
* Mothers’ Day

I wasn’t tired for even a second!
I wasn’t stressed or frazzled one bit!
I had my act together all the way!
Nothing went wrong at any point!
No disappointment whatsoever!
Perfect order of things!
Even the weather partnered fully with us! No anxieties!

I cannot but marvel at how God always helps me to end up making all things beautiful, furnishing me with more than enough money to power all that my heart has conceived to do to see people maximally blessed and happy that they came.

I marvel at God’s commitment to me and whatever he puts in my heart to do…I see Philippians 4:13 fulfilled in my life time and time again.

In the midst of my counting my blessings, and marveling at why I always enjoy such effortless success in everything I do, I remembered a very important part of it all. I remembered my husband’s part in all these…

My husband never misses any opportunity to speak blessings into my life each time…

* I give him a prophet offering after i return from a preaching engagement…

* He comes into the kitchen and sees me cooking…
“Mummy, should I bring you a seat? ” he would ask.
” Should I bring the fan in here? ”
I will tell him not to bother… And he will start blessing me…

* When he comes out of his study and sees shopping bags on the table, checks and sees that I just bought provisions for the house…He starts pronouncing blessing over me.

*When any of the girls gives birth to a new baby, and I go to take care of them… He calls everyday, blessing and thanking me profusely for all that I do for him and the children…

* When he finishes eating a good meal he knows I’m the one that cooked it, he says, “Mummy, thank you!…
God will continue to honour you!
The world will hear your voice! Men will serve you!
You will continue to enjoy favour from God and from men!
I love you! ”

If you remember that blessing is empowerment to succeed, and that God confirms the words of his servants, then you can understand why I enjoy God’s backing and supernatural provisions for success in life and Ministry.

God continues to use men to do for me and give me things beyond what my husband can give me…

Even if you’re not rich enough to buy gifts for your wife, or to give her the kind of life and comfort she desires, at least speak kind and encouraging words to her that God can use to make up for your inability.

Don’t speak wicked, hurtful and demeaning words to your wife!

God brought her into your life as “a good thing” to help you – Proverbs 18:22; Genesis 2:24. If you hurt your helper, who will help you?

If your words render her hopeless and helpless, and an emotional wreck, what kind of wife, mother and homemaker will she be?

Even if you’re hated and despised, don’t hate and despise yourself!

Even if your husband has abandoned you for another woman, don’t abandon yourself!

You were not just created for your family alone, there’s a bigger picture…Dive into God and Catch it! Be constantly self inspired and self encouraged!

Even if you’re not appreciated, appreciate yourself, honour yourself!

Pity-party, shedding secret tears, emotional foolishness and sliding into depression will kill you before your time…And you know you must live long to enjoy the fruits of your labour in your husband’s and children’s lives. Yes!...Read Isaiah 65:20-22.

Even if you think your husband doesn’t love you anymore, remember, you have a Father in heaven who loves you with an everlasting love…and cares for you affectionately and watchfully…

Get intimate with him, and stay connected to him! Let your expectation be from him always, not from your husband, your children, or anyone else for that matter!

God, your father will never find fault with you. Yes!


#grateful #gratitude

#thanksgiving #myhusband


#family # children




Text: Esther Chapters 1-10

You see, the most remarkable thing about Esther’s one night with the king, was not her change of story, or her becoming Queen. No!

It was, much more, the revolution that her becoming Queen brought in the whole nation.

* What you become in God is primarily for others to become what God wants for them.

Simeon said of the baby Jesus at his dedication, “Behold, this child is destined for the fall and rising of many in Israel…” – Luke 2:34.

(Of course, it will always be a two-edged sword. Was Esther becoming Queen not also for the fall of Harman?).

* When you become what God has programmed for you to be on this earth, somebody’s story/status is about to change.

Did Mordecai’s story and status not change when Esther became Queen?

* We are made/changed to be used of God to make others, so that their circumstances can also change.

* Esther’s change of story turned out to be for the rising of Mordecai, the deliverance of the Jews and for the falling of Harman and all the enemies of the Jews (God’s people).


* You see, you’re useless to God now as you are in your struggling, beggarlly, pitiful, poor and lowly state! Yes!

* Your story can change!And your story must change!
I mean, your story just has to change!

* There is something you must become in this life! There’s a position you must rise to for such a time as this, , for the falling of those who must fall, and for the rising of those who must rise! I tell you!

Can you imagine? One young woman’s change of story sparked off such an unimaginable revolution in a whole nation! God and his people just took over and began to decree and determine what happens in the nation. The king became a mere instrument of authorizing God’s decrees in the land.

All because of just one beautiful girl whose story changed! A slave girl! An orphan! A nobody!

But her story changed! Suddenly, she became so influential! She had power with God, she had power with men! And God could now use her to make life better for others. Alleluia!

Come on! God is no respecter of persons – Acts 10:34 & 35.
So you could be that person both God and your nation have been waiting for!

So, arise! Shake yourself from the dust o son of God! Put on your strength! Put on Christ, in whose image you have now been recreated! So, you’re not disadvantaged in any way! Start knowing some things brother/sister!

You have heard it said, “Becoming The Best You Can Be.” I need to let you know however, that in Christ, legally, God has made you the best you can be, fully furnishing you with all that you need to make it all manifest in the world of men here on earth, for his glory and for the benefit of others.

So, get to know who you are, what you have and what you can do in Christ, and begin to function in those realities for a life that speaks, a life that counts for generations…

Read: Philemon 1:6; 2Timothy 2:15; 2Timothy 3:15-17;1Corinthians 15:10; Colossians 1:27; Ephesians 2:6 & 10.

– #DrAdaEzeka







If you’re a man…

Please read 1Corinthians 7:1-2, and Proverbs chapter15, from verse 5 to the end…

You will see that God has arranged for all of a man’s sexual desires to be satisfied in his marriage…Yes!

So, I really don’t know what you’re looking for outside…

Stop hurting your marriage and family…

They mean the world to God. Yes! 😡😡😡