SMALL CAN BECOME BIG YOU KNOW?

God never walks crooked places!

God won’t walk tight places! Oh yes!

So, he takes small and makes it big…

He takes few and makes it much!

Why? So that it can advertise his bigness…his presence…his partnership!

I tell you, if you will attract God to that thing you think is small…just watch…

In “the process of time”, it will take on the shape and size of his bigness!

The secret? Jeremiah 30:19!

So, please, don’t let that small thing in your hand die, okay?

Nurture it!

Invest in it!

Give it your best!

Protect it!

Take care of it!

#DrAdaEzeka

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SHOULD ALL HELL BREAK LOOSE?

YOU JUST FOUND OUT THAT YOUR HUSBAND /WIFE HAS A CHILD OUTSIDE MARRIAGE (BEFORE OR AFTER HE MARRIED YOU… (PT 2)

WHAT NOW? SHOULD ALL HELL BREAK LOOSE?

We were looking at what a husband or wife should do when he/she finds out that his/her wife/husband has a child from outside… THE GOD DIMENSION

I have come to understand that… * God does not do wickedness (Read Job 34:10). * There is no deceit in him (James 1:17). * He is good and upright (Psalm 92:14-15) * He makes decisions based on his love and demands the same of us (John 3:16). * He is a generation -minded God.

THE GOOD, THE PERMISIVE AND THE PERFECT WILL OF GOD

Having said all that…(in PT 1)… This is my answer:

Whatever decision you choose to take, God will neither condemn you, nor punish you. But think about the consequences of your decision on the future of that child and generations that will be birthed and affected by his life… Neither will God force a choice or decision on you. But remember that Romans 5:5 says he has poured his love in our hearts. And the reason is to ensure that our decisions are guided by his love. This love forgives! This love makes excuses for multitude of sins! This love is unselfish! This love thinks God first, others second and you last. When we make a decision for love, there’s nothing we can’t forgive and forget.

THIS IS MY WISE COUNSEL… Forgive your husband /wife. Don’t let his/her past mistake ruin your marriage…It’s not worth it!

Finally, accept that child! If you truly love your wife/husband, you should be able to love a child that is his/her’s or yours.

Both of you should agree to bring the child in (if necessary), and give him/her the same privileges your children are enjoying.

Don’t think about what people will say. It’s not important. God and tomorrow are more important! Don’t hurt so much! Remove sorrow, anger and bitterness from your heart. Let God comfort and help you. Guard the Spirit of Marriage, and be happy! Okay? (Read Malachi 2:15-16 in Message Bible or NKJV). Peace, in Jesus name! Alleluia!

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IS DATING NECESSARY BEFORE MARRIAGE?

WILL YOU MARRY ME? with Ada Ezeka

(answering your questions on relationship)

Q:

Ma, is dating necessary before marriage…If “Yes!”, for how long?

A: Yes dating is necessary before marriage…But in courtship!

Because boyfriend/girlfriend is not allowed in Christianity…Besides, why waste your love, time, energy, gifts, money,etc on a guy or girl that will later leave you to go settle down with someone else? It’s foolishness! Absolutely counterproductive!

I always tell girls, you were not created for a boyfriend or sugar daddy, or someonelses’s husband…you were created for a husband…your own husband…wait for him…Don’t make yourself a second-hand material by the time he comes! Maintain your self respect and the dignity of womanhood…Yes!

I’ve come to see that the boyfriend/girlfriend syndrome, is a magnetic field of sin and promiscuity…an alternative to marriage that satan has provided for the youth of today…

They’re not married, yet they’re doing everything that only married people are supposed to do (even getting pregnant and having babies)!

Dating is necessary for people in courtship…so you can get to know each other better, and begin to build a relationship that will continue in marriage (but it must be discreetly and with decency and caution – no carelessness…no mischief)!

It will also help you to know the stuff your fiance/fiancée is made of…So you can decide whether you can live together happily and profitably as husband and wife that will enhance each other, or not…

The how long should be long enough to study and know enough about each other…to be able to decide whether to continue or break the courtship.

What’s the hurry anyway? You have a whole lifetime to live together! You don’t want to live it in misery and regret, do you?

Wisdom…and the fear of God, is the name of the game!

And…Make sure you don’t leave God out of it all, okay? He’s very interested in your future…Read Jeremiah 29:11-13.

You’re blessed!

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