Text: Proverbs 31:10

“A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.”


“A capable, intelligent and virtous woman… who can find her. She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies and pearls.” – AMP

“Who can find a virtous wife? For her worth is far above rabies. ” -NKJV

What many married men don’t know is that…

No matter how wealthy and rich with children, money, cars and houses you become in this life, your wife still remains your greatest wealth and asset in this world. Yes!

By God’s design and rating, your wife will remain the number one asset and the most important addition that God will ever bring into your life.

God rates your wife’s worth and position in your life by the purpose for which he created her, and what he endowed her with to accomplish that purpose in your personal life and purpose here on earth.

So it doesn’t matter what else you have acquired and value in your life now, it can never take the place of your wife’s worth and invaluable assignment in your life.

Read these scriptures, please. They will throw more light on the authenticity of this wisdom I am sharing with you…

– Genesis 2:15,18, & 24

– 1Corinthians 11:7 & 9

– Proverbs 31:10-12

– Proverbs 18:22

God’s rating for the value of a man’s wife (and for the wellbeign of his children and family), is so powerful that it’s the primary criteria for how God rates and relates with the man. Malachi 2:13-16 and 1Peter 3:7 throw more light on this truth.

So you see, whatever else you have chosen to use as criteria to rate your wife’s usefulness and worth in your life and affairs (and to justify how you’re treating her) does not hold any water with God.

As far as God is concerned, your wife is…

* a good thing

* just the right, suitable and adequate help and partner you will ever need for ultimate and maximum success in this life.

* worth leaving your father and mother for.

* priceless…that is, no amount of money or treasure in any currency can equal her worth in your life. She is “far worth more than rubies”…or any price you want to place on her – Proverbs 31:10.

* worth more than any number of babies she will ever make for you.

That’s why it’s utter foolishness to consider your wife useless to you because she hasn’t given you any child…

Or because she has not been able to give you any male child… forgetting that it’s the God that forms babies in the womb that chooses to give either a male or female body to the seed you sowed in her womb not her – 1Corinthians 15-34-35 ; Jeremiah 1:5.

Let me conclude by letting you know, dear husband, that whatever your wife has turned out to become to you is absolutely your doing…

Just like you have the hot and cold water knob, whichever one you choose to turn on, is what determines whether it’s cold or hot water that comes out for you.

God gave you your wife like oil, diamond or gold in the belly of the earth…What you do with her determines how profitable she will be to you.

That’s why I always say that the true wife abuse is when a man is not sensitive enough to his wife’s worth enough to tap into it and make the most of her potentials to better his life.

That’s why many women go seeking fulfilment and affirmation in other things like money, career, fame, recognition, love, etc.

A woman who is fully engaged (and consequently, finds, love, joy and riches) in her husband’s life, will be too fulfilled to be interested in anything else that is not related to that primary assignment.

Why? Because she was created for the man. That is why, a woman who is not a happy wife can honestly not be a happy anything else.

A woman whose husband has made room in his life for her to fit in perfectly, is the happiest and most fulfilled woman, wife, mother and homemaker there can ever be.

That’s a woman who will live healthy, strong, long and victorious always – no matter what comes against her. Yes!

Husband, it’s time to begin to reevaluate your value and appreciation for your wife, based on God’s infallible standards.

Can I tell you something? Do you know, if your knowledge of God, and your value for him increases, your value for your wife will automatically increase? There is definitely a connection between the two….I just know it.

Receive God’s marvellous helps now, in Jesus precious name!

Peace to you and your household, by all means!.



#family #familypeace. #Biblesense for #husbands




#assets #values

#morethanmoney #Godandyourwife



Text: Genesis 2:18

“God said, “It’s not good for the Man to be alone; I’ll make him a helper, a companion.”

Let me tell you: there is more to the woman’s assignment than child-bearing.

So, woman, not being able to have a child for your husband does not make you any less a wife or help meet (or a suitable co worker for the task) for him.

It is your womb that probably has a problem, not you…And you’re not your womb!

A woman does not lose her God intended relevance to her husband and the society just because her womb has a problem doing its job.

A woman does not lose her God-given place and power just because she can’t bear children.

A woman should not lose value in the eyes of her husband, family and society just because she is unable to get pregnant and give birth to a child…

Abraham and Sarah, Elkanah And Hannah, Zechariah and Elizabeth all stayed happily married, till old age, without children…until the tables turned against the spirit of barrenness!

Elkanah said to his wife, Hannah,

Oh, Hannah, why are you crying? Why aren’t you eating? And why are you so upset? Am I not of more worth to you than ten sons?” – 1 Samuel 1:8

That is, a woman should still be happy and fulfilled whether she’s able to bear children or not…

And listen to me: there’s nothing wrong with adoption…Yes! God believes in it….

If you’re unable to have a child (due to some medical or physiological reasons, maybe)…adopt a child on whom you can lavish all the fatherly and motherly virtue and love God created you with…But do it legally, okay?

Don’t go and “buy”a child…after faking a pregnancy…For what?

That’s an unfortunate mockery of the dignity and integrity of womanhood! Don’t do it ! You don’t have to prove anything to anybody…






#pregnancy #adoption




Beauty is not a look, it’s a nature…

It’s something on the inside working on the outside… Thats why God looks on the inside of a man not the outside (1Samuel 16:7)…

A good man, out of the beauty on his inside, brings forth beautiful things, and beautifies his life and everything and everyone around him… Yes! -Matthew 12:35….

The kings daughter is glorious within – Psalm 45:13… Christ in you is the greatest beauty in you…

-makes you different

-makes you stand out anywhere, anyday anytime…Colossians 1:27; 2:3…

Mmmmmm! So much to say…






#beauty #Christinyou



There are too many poor families in church!

Too many empty-handed Christians in church!

Listen: God wants your family wealthy!

Haven’t you heard:

Blessed is the man that feareth the Lord,

that delighteth greatly in his commandments.

His seed shall be mighty upon earth:

the generation of the upright shall be blessed.

Wealth and riches shall be in his house:

and his righteousness endureth for ever.” – Psalm 112:1-3.

Please, stop tolerating and managing poverty in your house! Enough is enough!

Wealth is a must for every Christian family – including yours!