DON’T LIVE FOR NEEDS

BEWARE OF NEEDS!

Don’t allow needs to capture your heart…It will control everything else you do…

It will even make u exploit ur relationships. Yes!

Don’t make a god out of your needs…

Don’t worship your needs…That will make you worship money, and whatever, or whoever gives you money…

Don’t live to meet needs! Live for God! Worship God! Serve God! Then trust him for your needs! Isn’t that a better way to live?’

#DrAdaEzeka

#Bewareofneeds

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

WILL YOU MAARRY ME? with Ada Ezeka

(answering your questions on relationship)

Anonymous:

Can I marry someone I don’t love?

ADA EZEKA:

Recently, I heard my husband say: “There’s nowhere in the Bible where God said, ‘Marry the one you love’. What God said is, ‘Love the one you have married.’

I was very excited about this, because it corroborated with a wisdom I once shared on this WYMM? Page.

I said,”Don’t marry for love sake,marry for marriage sake”. Then, I began to put many scriptures together and I saw that everywhere God talked about love between the opposite sex, it was always with reference to husband and wife. Read Ephesians 5v25; Titus 2v3-4.

So I came to the conclusion that true and pure,unselfish love is only possible between husband and wife.

I now understood why what is called love between the opposite sex always led to the sin of fornication and sexual immorality. Why? They’re treading forbidden grounds! God reserved love between the male and female, for husband and wife…which naturally is supposed to stir up emotions that will lead them on to sex…which God designed to increase bonding into “one flesh” between both of them.

Can’t you see, people, that the so called love that leads people to believe they are meant for each other is the wrongest signal or confirmation of who your husband/wife is?

No wonder there’s been so many regrets in marriage! The love was baseless- no foundation beyond feelings and physical attraction! But when a husband loves his wife(not his fiancee)…when a wife loves her husband,it’s a love that God gets committed to sustaining…it’s love that keeps growing and getting stronger by the day…it’s love that has a future! Guys, ladies, the most authentic way to know who your husband or wife is(if you are a Spirit-filled Christian) is by a witness of the Holy Spirit in your heart, which will probably not have anything to do with feelings or any physical thing you can put your finger on (read 1 Corinthians 2v9-10).

Hard work? Yes! Because marriage is a matter of life and death…believe me!

#DrAdaEzeka

#willyoumarryme

#loveandmarriage

IT’S BY FAITH…

GOOD NEWS!

If you want victories in this life, Faith is it! Faith delivers victory always – not shame, losses or disappointments…1Jn 5:4

This heavenly life must be by faith. It must be as real to you in your heart as this physical life man inherited from Adam…No matter the adverse situations…Yes!

Heaven is all about God. So God on earth is heaven on earth. And Jesus brought God back on earth bodily. Alleluia!

In Christ heaven and earth became one. So the day you were born into Christ, you were born into heaven. It’s an unchangeable eternal reality… In Jesus,man and God became one, to make heaven a seeable and an enjoyable reality here on earth. Don’t let religion cheat you out of it!

If you are in Christ, heaven is not a destination or a location. It is the reality of God to be experienced in this life,NOW!

#DrAdaEzeka

#goodnews #divinerealities

#NewCreationrealities

#thenewlifeinChrist

#beinspired🌟

WHO IS A VIRTOUS WOMAN?

A woman who spent all her married life troubling the family she came into with hatred, malice, diabolical practices, strife, gossip, animosity and all manner of wickedness dies, and her obituary reads:

” EXIT OF A VIRTOUS WOMAN”. And I began to wonder : “What an abuse of words!”

The world knows how to so abuse a word or concept until it loses value and really no longer means anything. I think it’s a satanic ploy to rubbish the things that matter to God and keep man at a level so debased that it’s difficult for God to reach him…

Secondly, the world’s definition of “virtuous woman” is now based on how domesticated and “housewifely” the woman is

Who is a virtous woman?

It’s actually who you are on the inside. A woman full of the virtues of the fear of God, the wisdom of God, strength of character, patience, love, a sound knowledge and understanding of God and his ways… These virtues then control the things you think, say and do… It is, basically, something on the inside that has so much to show on the outside…

“The kings daughter is glorious within… “

Read: Jeremiah 9:23-24; Proverbs 31:10-31; 1Peter 3:1-3; Colossians 1:9-11.

#DrAdaEzeka

#virtouswoman

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

Marriages are perfected in love…

And God has borrowed us some love in our hearts for that purpose…

So, every marriage can succeed…Yes!

Every marriage can be perfect…Yes!

That is…if we will depend on that love, instead of our so-fickle human love…

LOVE IS GOD AT WORK

Let’s stop limiting love to emotions…to just sensual sensitivities (which is more of the time fueled by lust)!

God is love; and God is not in the realm of the senses.

True,real powerful,dependable love, is God at work in a man’s heart, determining his responses, thoughts, words, actions, choices and decisions…for a meaningful and peaceful life that brings God joy and glory….and frustrates the devil! Yes.

#DrAdaEzeka

#marriage

#husband #wife

#husbandandwife

#familylifeuniversity

GOD LOVES ORDER AND DECENCY

MIDWEEK MOTIVATION with Dr Ada Ezeka

ZEAL IS NOT ENOUGH!

Text- 1Corinthians 14:40

“Let all things be done decently and in order.”

You see, we can’t confuse God with zeal…

That we are zealous, and that we have abundance of resources is not enough.

God weighs our zeal and everything by the level of knowledge and understanding powering our motives and actions…Yes!

God will never bend his rules, or close his eyes to disorder and unethical approach to whatsoever we do for him and in his name…

That’s why he took the throne from Saul

and gave it to someonelse…Saul meant well, but he didnt do well…He did not do the good did as commanded…

Same with Cain – Genesis 4

Same with David…and Uzzah took the brunt of God’s dis-satisfaction for the method David chose to bring home the ark…Good intention; but unethical approach!

So, good intention is not enough!

Zeal is not enough!

“We have the money” is not enough!

God is not an anyhow God!

We have a Kingdom to advertise on this earth…Let’s be mindful of its ethics, ways and manner of life…

God will be happy, and our results and success will be more supernatural -Ecclesiastes 10:15).

Praise God!

#DrAdaEzeka

#order #decency #ethics

#motives #zeal

A WOMAN OF REVOLUTION : WHO IS SHE?

SISTERS’ CONFERENCE…with Freedom Christian Centre, Lekki last Saturday…

Theme: A WOMAN OF REVOLUTION

Teaching: DISCOVER YOUR POTENTIALS

INTRO:

The woman (the female man) is as important to God as the man (man in a male body) – Genesis 1:26-28

Because…It’s not only the man that has an assignment , the woman too.

The woman’s assignment and responsibility are such that she cannot afford to fail…

1.A WOMAN OF REVELATION: WHO IS SHE?

-She’s a woman who makes things happen

-She causes changes (sudden change)

-She doesn’t watch things spoil

-She is a woman of knowledge…not ignorant , foolish and full of vanity

-She is not careless or selfish – she does not live for herself

-She is strong…144:12 – like a sculptured pillar…

“That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; That our daughters may be a—1s pillars, Sculptured in palace style;”

Like the capable Proverbs 31 wife, mother and homemaker…energetic, a woman of strength and dignity, focused, no idleness.

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-She is wise – Proverbs 24:5…because she’s a woman of revelation knowledge, a woman of understanding…

-She’s a woman of substance – Like the women who followed Jesus in his ministry…and supported him and his disciples with their wealth – Luke 8:3….A woman of revolution works and has has her own money (strong financially)…

3.It is not possible to be a woman of revolution without first revolutionizing yourself…

-Who are you, please? – John 1:19-23

-What do you have to offer? – Acts 3:6

-What are you doing with who you are? –

-What are you doing with what you have?

EXAMPLES

-the woman at the well -John 4

-widow of Zarepath – 1 Kings 17

-the notable woman – 2 Kings 4

-Deborah – Judges 4:

-Queen Esther – Esther 5-6

-Woman with the alabaster oil – Luke 8:3…relevant in the move of God

4.What is your confidence?

What are you trusting in? – your husband? Your degree? Your career/profession/business? social status? connections? title? Bank account? – Jeremiah 17:5-8

YOUR REAL POTENTIAL

Your greatest asset and potential in being a woman of revolution , is what God has given you…or what God has done in you…or what God has made you…That is: Christ in you – Colossians 1:27

Now, what does that mean?

-You’re a spirit being – John 3:6; John 1:12-13

– All of God is in you – Colossians 2:9-10

-You have eternal life – 1 John 5:11-13

-Every good thing is in you – Philemon 1:6

-You are full of power – Micah 3:8; Acts 1:8; Luke 4:18; 1 John 2:20,27

#DrAdaEzeka

#awomanofrevolution

#discoveryouotential

SEX AND YOUR MARRIAGE

Husband and wife, don’t let your sex life die…it will kill your marriage!

SEX in marriage is not just for procreation….

There is something about sex that keeps the marriage alife.

That’s why when a man begins to get sex outside his marriage…it begins to affect the marriage, big time…And most times divorce follows…Because sex enhances bonding.

That’s why God ordained sex for only a man and his wife…

It is to enhance the process of becoming one flesh… Read 1Corinthians 6:16; 1Corinthians 7:1-9.

That’s why I preach against separate rooms! It is not good for fellowship and intimacy between husband and wife. (Read Ecclesiastes 4:10-12).

If the fire has gone out or is going out in your sex life…don’t think it doesn’t matter…

Take the matter to God in prayer (Matthew 18:18-19)…Yes, God is interested in your sex life.

Husband, return to your wife – “Drink water from your own cistern… “

Proverbs 5:15 says….Stolen water is sweet, but it can also kill! (Read Proverbs 5 to the end)!

I believe this is rescue message for someone!

God is so good, caring, merciful and committed to our joy and total wellbeing. Let’s co-operate with him.

God bless you!

#DrAdaEzeka

#Sexandmarriage

#husbandandwife

#familylife

OLD AGE IS NOT A DISADVANTAGE!

DON’T BE AFRAID OF OLD AGE!

There’s no reason to be afraid of getting old.

See what God said: ” Even in old age they will still produce fruits and be vital and green. ” (TLB)

Isn’t that good news!

Let’s read it from the Message Bible, “They will grow tall in the presence of God, lithe and green,virile still in old age. ” Alleluia!

The Passion Translation also renders it beautifully:

“For in your presence they will still overflow and be anointed.

Even in their old age they will stay fresh, bearing luscious fruit and abiding faithfully.”

Psalm 92:14 TPT.

So you can see that God expects you to still be useful, relevant and about your dream, business, vision or assignment… And preparing the next generation to take over from you…

Not a concern, or a liability to anyone…Yes!

So, not even sickness or death can sabotage that – except you let them! Will you let them? Tell me…

Old age is not a handicap nor a disadvantage…

Neither is it a condemnation to a life of sickness and disease…

Or resignation to death!

Please organize for long life without sickness and disease, without wrinkles, without poverty, without any form of feebleness, without plastic surgery…It is very possible!

In Christ, that’s your heritage…Genesis 24:1.

#DrAdaEzeka

#oldage #nowrinkles

#nosickness #noplasticsurgery

#ageinggracefully

#longlifeinstyle

#strong #healthy #beautiful

#itsallinChrist

NEVER SPEAK TO HURT!

MIDWEEK MOTIVATION with Dr Ada Ezeka

WATCH YOUR WORDS!

Many relationships have been destroyed by words – wicked, destructive, like-piercing-arrows words!

You are not free to use any words you like to talk to someonelse….Yes!

That someone hurt you doesn’t mean you should hurt them back…

A true Christian will never use hurtful words to speak to anyone…because the Holy Spirit will never give you such words…

Paul said, “But we speak wisdom…We use Holy Spirit words to communicate Holy Spirit facts… our words are wise because our message is from God…” – 1Corinthians 2:7-13.

Before you speak think: “Will these words build, encourage, motivate, comfort, heal…or depress, hurt or destroy…?”

If you don’t care what or how you speak to people, people will not care what, or how they speak to you!

If you hurt people, you will keep reaping harvests of hurt from others! – Genesis 8:22.

#DrAdaEzeka

#becarefulhowyouspeak

#donthurtpeoplewithyourwords