It is only a husband and his wife that do marriage…

Genesis 2:24

“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united with his wife, and they become one.” GNT

So, without the committed and faithful involvement of both, there can be no marriage!

If you truly want your marriage to work, as God ordained it to…The only 3rd party allowed is God and God alone…Yes!

Any other person you allow to be part of your marriage is excess luggage…

And you know…when you’re going on a journey, and you show up at the counter with excess luggage…you either pay for it or you drop it!

Marriage is a journey into the rest of your life…The picture of your marriage today, is a picture of the rest of your life…Think about that!

Not even your children are allowed to come between you two!






Not, “Your money or your life? ” this time… lol!

Have you ever heard some women say, “The only reason I’m in this marriage is because of my children… “

Listen sis, you’re not in marriage for the children’s sake, you’re in marriage for your husband’s sake!

Please read Genesis 2:18-25; in case you’ve forgotten why you went into marriage in the first place.

Note also that the children are the seed of the man, not yours! Read Psalm 112:1-3.

And of course,remember you came into the marriage because of the man; there were no children… Success in motherhood will never take the place of your failure in wifehood (as a wife)…No! Whoever graduates with As in elective courses, and an F in the major course for which he or she got admitted into the university? Tell me?

Recently God said to me, ” Many women have succeeded in motherhood, but not as many women have succeeded in wifehood!”

Wifehood is your ministry to your husband, while motherhood is your ministry to the children – none should take the place of the other…

To say that you’re in that marriage just because of the children, is like saying, ” Oh, I love these mango fruits! I can’t do without them! “

You do?! Really? ” ” Oh yes I do. But the mango tree can go to hell for all I care! “

Excuse me? Just wait till all the children leave home…!


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