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By your writings shall light come to those who sit in darkness.

YOUR MARRIAGE, OR YOUR CHILDREN… ?
Not, “Your money or your life? ” this time… lol!

Have you ever heard some women say, “The only reason I’m in this marriage is because of my children…”

Listen sis, you’re not in that marriage for the children’s sake, you’re in marriage for your husband’s sake!

Please read Genesis 2:18-25; in case you’ve forgotten why you went into marriage in the first place.

Note also that the children are the seed of the man, not yours! Read Psalm 112:1-3.

And of course,remember you came into the marriage because of the man; there were no children…

So, your success in motherhood will never take the place of your failure in marriage! No!

Recently God said to me… “Many women have succeeded in motherhood, but not as many women have succeeded in wifehood!

(Wifehood is your ministry to your husband, while motherhood is your ministry towards the children – none should take the place of the other).

To say that you’re in that marriage just because of the children, is like saying, ” Oh, I love these mango fruits! I can’t do without them! ”

You do?! Really?

And you go, ” Oh yes I do. But the mango tree can go to hell for all I care! ”

Excuse me?

#DrAdaEzeka

#marriage #family #purpose #motherhood #relationship #wisdom #children

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THIS THING CALKED “LOVE”!

LOVE AND MARRIAGE

IT’S TIME WE BEGAN TO RE-EVALUATE THIS THING WE CALL “LOVE” IN MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE!

MANY MARRIAGES STARTED (OR WERE BUILT) ON THIS SO-CALLED EPHEMERAL PHENOMENON,AND HAVE CRASHED! WHILE SOME ARE TOTTERING, FOR A DEVASTATING HUMPTY DUMPTY FALL…

I SINCERELY BELIEVE THAT THIS IS WHAT IS WRONG WITH TODAY’S MARRIAGES. YES! PEOPLE GOING INTO MARRIAGE BASED ON WHAT THEY FEEL FOR EACH OTHER, AND EXPECTATIONS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE VALUES THAT MAKE FOR STRONG AND LASTING MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP!

IF THE NEXT GENERATIONS OF MARRIAGES AND FAMILIES MUST BE SAVED FROM THIS VICIOUS CYCLE, THEY MUST BE TAUGHT…

THIS IS THE DRIVING FORCE IN MY FAMILY LIFE CRUSADE; WHICH HAS GRADUATED TO THE “FAMILY LIFE UNIVERSITY”; INTENDED TO OFFER PLANNED AND STRATEGIC EDUCATION THAT :

1. PREPARES PEOPLE FOR MARRIAGE

2. PROVIDE OPPORTUNITY FOR REFRESHER COURSES THAT WILL STRENGHTEN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MARRIED COUPLES

3.AN INTENSE WORD THERAPY TO RESCUE AILING MARRIAGES.

I AM SO DETERMINED… AND I HAVE HEAVEN’S FULL BACKING… I COVET YOURS TOO…

#DrAdaEzeka

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#itsacrusade #rescuemission #marriages #families #generations

#love

YOU NEED TO KNOW THIS…

NEVER MURMUR ABOUT THE SEX OF YOUR CHILD! Text:

1Corinthians 15:36-38

It is God that makes babies male or female in the womb.

So, that your wife gave birth to a bouncing baby boy or girl, is neither her making nor your’s.

Note that your sperm that ferterlizes your wife’s egg to make the baby is neither a male of female sperm.

What your sperm carries is life that comes into this world as your child.

Don’t let science deceive you. God’s purposes and intentions were already pre-determined and perfectly in place before science came.

It is God that chooses whether to give a male or female body to that life to come into this world with (in your wife’s womb).

“But God gives it (your seed) a body (male or female) as he pleases;and to each seed its own body.”

And he doesn’t do that arbitrarily, or by guess work. No!

He does that based on the purpose or assignment he has predetermined for that life growing in your wife’s womb here on earth, even before you married your wife. Yes! See Jeremiah 1:5.

What God expects of you is not to gripe or murmur about the sex of your child, but to take conscious responsibility to raise, train, nurture, guide and prepare that child and make him or her ready and available for God to use…See Proverbs 22:6 and Malachi 2:15.

Meditate on these things…And may the Lord give you understanding, in Jesus name!

#DrAdaEzeka

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#thesexofyourchild #parenting #education #childraising #purpose #assignment #destiny #Godandyourchild

MAKE YOUR PRAYERS COUNT

IN YOUR HEART FIRST!

“I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, almost in every prayer of mine making request for you all with joy… because I have you in my heart… ” – Philippians 1:7.

In these verses of scripture lies a very powerful secret of the prayer that makes tremendous power available to change things.

It’s impossible to pray with joy for an issue or someone you rarely think about, or that is not in your heart.

That’s actually what James 5:16 is talking about.

Looking also at Jesus’s injunction to pray always and not lose heart (in Luke 18:1), we see that you cannot effectively pray for something or someone that your heart has lost grip of.

If we will be less self-concerned and less constantly consumed by our own personal needs , there will definitely be more room in our hearts for others, and the Holy Spirit can inspire us to pray for them more often…

God will help us in Jesus name!

#DrAdaEzeka

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#prayerabdyourheart

#prayeethatworks

HANDLING THE RED SEAS OF LIFE

RED SEAS DON’T SCARE ME!
Text: Exodus 14:13-16
“And the Lord said to Moses, ‘Why do you cry to me…lift up your rod and stretch your hand over the sea and divide it…’ “

See, if God is leading you towards the Red Sea, to cross into your “promised land”, it’s because he knows the Red Sea can’t stop you. Yes! Instead, it will part for you.

FOR THAT TO HAPPEN…
God expects you to:
* Keep speaking the language of victory – 2Corinthians 4:13.

* Keep speaking your confidence in God.

– Exodus 14:13.
* Don’t mind the distractions, the negative voices, etc.

-Exodus 14:11-12.
See also Hebrews 12:2 (Amplified).

* Keep the communication line between you and the Holy Spirit open. How?
-By keeping your heart fixed on what God has promised or told you; unwavering in your faith in his ability…
-Exodus 14:16
-James 1:5-8
-Romans 4:18-21
-Luke 1:45

NOTE…
Note however that faith works in the heart…Not in the head, not in your feelings or emotions. So don’t let the devil mess with your head or your emotions, okay?
-Romans 10:10
-Mark 11:23-24
-Jonah 2:8

God’s Word has to be in your heart and in your mouth before it can do anything for you. Yes!
-Matthew 12:33-35
-Joshua 1:8

Paul said to the Corinthian Christians, “You’ve been so spiritually illiterate I couldn’t talk to you… “

That will not be the case with you, in Jesus name! So you must go for knowledge – revelation knowledge.

I mean, accurate, exact, precise and full personal knowledge of God, the finished work of Jesus, and the realities of the New Covenant.

No more religion! No more assumptions! No guess work!

When you resist the devil (any Red Sea) on the platform of faith anchored on accurate knowledge and understanding, he will flee from you (as in terror)! I tell you!

#DrAdaEzeka

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#unstoppable

#victoryalways

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#noshaking #nofear

#nomurmuring

RELEASING THE SUPERNATURAL…

IS IT YOUR DESIRE?
Text: John 3:3-8

If you’re born again, you are born to live in the supernatural.

You are born to live the supernatural life naturally. That is, the supernatural life should be natural to you, because it’s your nature in Christ. Yes!

You’re born to release the supernatural anytime, anywhere, anyday.

IT’S NOT MAGIC
The supernatural is not magic. For instance, Jesus feeding five thousand men in a desert place, with five loaves and two fishes was not magic; it was the release of the supernatural. Yes!

The supernatural is not wishful thinking. Neither is it 2+2=4. No!

The supernatural is something things happening at the frequency of the Word and the Holy Spirit in your life, and by you always – Genesis 1:1-3; John 3:5.

If the Word was not involved, it’s not supernatural. Never be deceived, there must be a Word explanation for every supernatural manifestation – John 1:1-3.

If that so called miracle happened without the Word, it’s not supernatural. If it had no Word foundation,, it’s not supernatural. The Word will always make the difference – Hebrews 11:2-3.

If the Holy Spirit was not involved, it is not supernatural – Acts 1:8; Zechariah 4:6; 1Corinthians 2:4.

So, if releasing the supernatural is your desire, if you want to live true to your nature in Christ, you must define the status of the Word and the Holy Spirit in your life, choices, decisions and the steps you take.

But this is the truth: the supernatural is in you!
These scriptures confirm it:
Colossians 1:27
– Colossians 2:9-10
– 1John 2:20 & 27
– Philemon 1:6
– 1John 5:11-13
– 1Corinthians 2:16

So, it’s time to wake up to your true nature. Stop allowing your humanity to get the better of you. The world is waiting!

#DrAdaEzeka

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#itssupernatural #Christianity #proofs

#theGodclass #manifestation

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#results #outofthisworld #successmotivation

#Wordpower #HolySpirit

YOUR WIFE IS YOUR GREATEST ASSET

FOR HUSBANDS WHO CARE

Text: Proverbs 31:10

“A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.” – MSG

“A capable, intelligent and virtous woman… who can find her. She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies and pearls.” – AMP

“Who can find a virtous wife? For her worth is far above rabies. ” -NKJV

What many married men don’t know is that…

No matter how wealthy and rich with children, money, cars and houses you become in this life, your wife still remains your greatest wealth and asset in this world. Yes!

By God’s design and rating, your wife will remain the number one asset and the most important addition that God will ever bring into your life.

God rates your wife’s worth and position in your life by the purpose for which he created her, and what he endowed her with to accomplish that purpose in your life and purpose here on earth.

So it doesn’t matter what else you have acquired and value in your life now, it can never take the place of your wife’s worth and invaluable place in your life.

Read these scriptures, please. They will throw more light on the authenticity of this wisdom I am sharing with you…
– Genesis 2:15,18, & 24
– 1Corinthians 11:7 & 9
– Proverbs 31:10-12
– Proverbs 18:22

God’s rating for the value of a man’s wife (and for the wellbeign of his children and family), is so powerful that it’s the primary criteria for how God rates and relates with the man. Malachi 2:13-16 and 1Peter 3:7 throw more light on this truth.

So you see, whatever else you have chosen to use as criteria to rate your wife’s usefulness and worth in your life and affairs (and to justify how you’re treating her) does not hold any water with God.

As far as God is concerned, your wife is…
* a good thing
* just the right, suitable and adequate help and partner you will ever need for ultimate and maximum success in this life.
* worth leaving your father and mother for.
* priceless…that is, no amount of money or treasure in any currency can equal her worth in your life. She is “far worth more than rubies”…or any price you want to place on her – Proverbs 31:10.
* worth more than any number of babies she will ever make for you.

That’s why it’s utter foolishness to consider your wife useless to you because she hasn’t given you any child…

Or because she has not been able to give you any male child… forgetting that it’s the God that forms babies in the womb that chooses to give either a male or female body to the seed you sowed in her womb not her – 1Corinthians 15-34-35 ; Jeremiah 1:5.

Let me conclude by letting you know, dear husband, that whatever your wife has turned out to become to you is absolutely your doing…

Just like you have the hot and cold water knob, whichever one you choose to turn on, is what determines whether it’s cold or hot water that comes out for you.

God gave you your wife like oil, diamond or gold in the belly of the earth…What you do with her determines how profitable she will be to you.

That’s why I always say that the true wife abuse is when a man is not sensitive enough to his wife’s worth enough to tap into it and make the most of her potentials to better his life.

That’s why many women go seeking fulfilment and affirmation in other things like money, career, fame, recognition, love, etc.

A woman who is fully engaged (and consequently, finds, love, joy and riches) in her husband’s life, will be too fulfilled to be interested in anything else that is not related to that primary assignment.

Why? Because she was created for the man. That is why, a woman who is not a happy wife can honestly not be a happy anything else.

A woman whose husband has made room in his life for her to fit in perfectly, is the happiest and most fulfilled woman, wife, mother and homemaker there can ever be.
That’s a woman who will live healthy, strong, long and victorious always – no matter what comes against her. Yes!

Husband, it’s time to begin to reevaluate your value and aporeciation for your wife based on God’s infallible standards. Receive God’s marvellius helps now, in Jesus precious name!

Peace to you abd your household, by all means!.

#DrAdaEzeka

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BEAUTIFUL AND DIFFERENT…

Great time with Teens Fellowship Owerri today… Challenging them to be BEAUTIFUL AND DIFFERENT…

Beauty is not a look, it’s a nature…

It’s something on the inside working on the outside…

Thats why God looks on the inside of a man not the outside (1Samuel 16:7)…

A good man, out of the beauty on his inside brings forth beautiful things, and beautifies his life and everything and everyone around him… Yes! -Matthew 12:35….

The kings daughter is glorious within – Psalm 45:13…

Christ in you is the greatest beauty in you…makes you different, stand out anywhere, anyday anytime…Colossians 1:27; 2:3…

Mmmmmm! So much to say…

#DrAdaEzeka

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#itsinyou

WOMAN, GOD PAYS WELL!

WHO IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN?

Do you want to know what God once told me? He said,

” A WOMAN’S TRUE BEAUTY, IS HER WORTH TO HER HUSBAND! ”

You know God never talks with his eyes on natural or physical things (1Samuel 16:7).

So you see woman, God rates you by your value to your husband; (not your jewelries, clothing, outward beauty, or your success on your job, or in your career, business or profession ).
This, in fact, is the primary reason he brought you on the scene in the first place (Genesis 2:15-25).

So it’s time for us female treasures of God to begin to re-evaluate our values and priorities.

I always say, if you get all Alphas in your elective courses in the University, and fail in your major course, you’re still not qualified for the certificate!

There is so much reward God has planned for us for the ” help meet ” responsibility he created us for; but we must do the job first, and do it very well.

Many women’s hearts and eyes are on the reward more than on the job. Wages always come after the job is done, not before.

That’s why I say to women everywhere i go… ” You’re
not in marriage for enjoyment; you’re in marriage for assignment!”

Ladies, let’s keep at it, more resolutely than ever! God pays well!

#DrAdaEzeka

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#husbandandwife

#marriage #family